Marriage
Christian Marriage for Men Who Lead
Christian marriage for the marketplace-leader husband: leading your wife spiritually, fighting fair, repairing well, sexual integrity, the seasons of marriage. When calling collides with calendar and success quietly creates distance.
6 guides live across the Christian-marriage lane. More added weekly.
Lead Your Wife
Spiritual Leadership of the Marriage for Christian Husbands
Spiritual leadership of the marriage for the Christian husband — leading her in prayer, casting vision together, leading her toward Christ. Built for the marketplace-leader husband whose work success can quietly create distance and whose calling collides with calendar.
How to Lead Your Wife Spiritually as a Christian Husband
Lead her in four rhythms. Daily — pray briefly with her at the day's start or end, even ninety seconds. Weekly — one unhurried check-in conversation about your hearts, not logistics. Monthly — a…
Read the full guide →Praying With Your Wife: A Daily Rhythm for Christian Husbands
Pray with her ninety seconds, twice a day, every day. Morning — before she leaves the bedroom, hand on her shoulder, one short prayer for the day ahead. Evening — before sleep, hand on hers, one…
Read the full guide →How to Cast Vision With Your Wife (Christian Marriage)
Cast vision in four timeframes together. 90-day — what is God doing in our marriage and family right now and what does the next quarter need? 1-year — what is God leading us toward next? 5-year —…
Read the full guide →Marriage Conflict
Biblical Conflict Resolution in Christian Marriage
Conflict-resolution frameworks for the Christian marriage — fighting fair, repairing after, addressing recurring patterns, processing big disagreements. Built for the husband who wants the marriage to last and is willing to do the hard repair work that produces longevity.
How to Fight Fair With Your Wife as a Christian Husband
Fight fair on four rules. One: go to the issue, not the person — behaviors, not character. Two: do not let the sun go down on anger (Ephesians 4:26) — name love before sleep. Three: beam in your own…
Read the full guide →How to Repair After a Fight With Your Wife (Christian Marriage)
Repair in four steps. Specific apology — name exactly what you did, no qualifiers. Pattern acknowledgment — if this is a recurring pattern, name it as a pattern. Restoration ritual — physical touch,…
Read the full guide →How to Address Recurring Conflict Patterns in Christian Marriage
Address recurring conflict in four steps. Name the pattern — "we have this fight every six weeks." Find the root — the surface trigger is usually a deeper unmet need or unhealed wound. Change the…
Read the full guide →The System
Tactics Are the Start. The System Is What Builds a Marriage That Lasts.
Every guide here points to the same operating system: Surrender → Identity → Execute. The 10X Life Plan integrates faith, family, health, work, and brotherhood into one practice. The book carries the framework. The planner carries the daily reps. The playbook is the free quick-start.